Dear blokes/dudes/boys* who want to make sexy time(s) with me, I get it. I really do. The testosterone coursing through your system like a relentless tide is driving you crazy. I get that you are biologically wired to spread your genetic code. I get that our culture makes it easy for you to have hook-ups and casual sexy time(s) without the pesky inconvenience of a relationship (and all that that entails). I get that you can pretty much pick and choose the basis of any and all encounters. I get it. I really do. And I get that you think that